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Welcome. I am Sir Guy DeBrownsville, (pronouns: he/him) known in the BDSM and Leather community as Sir Guy. I am a Leatherman. I am a Dominant man and a covered Leather Master. I am a proud of my history, my culture and my heritage as a Black Man. I am a BDSM activist and educator. I am a historian of sorts, particularly when it comes to my culture both in and outside of this alternative lifestyle. It is my goal to educate people about the so-called "alternative lifestyle" called BDSM in order to remove some of the stigma behind it, to transcend the misinformation about it and to support those for whom this lifestyle has appeal.
I seek to help those who practice it keep in mind the safety of themselves and those with whom they interact, to do so mindfully and intelligently and to insure that it is all done via mutual consent without forgetting it should be fun and enjoyable for all involved. I also seek to intelligently explain and educate in order to remove misconceptions and misinterpretations.
It is my wish to remind them that this lifestyle is not a utopia nor is it a panacea. Those within it did not spring forth from Wakanda, come down from Mount Olympus, nor did they ascend from Atlantis. They come out of this world and they bring along with the all of the positive and negative aspects of the societies from which they came.
It is my intent to help you navigate this lifestyle through open honest discussion, shared experiences and proven resources... in other words...REAL TALK!